The other day I wrote a post about how writing has become a bit of a slog for me lately. One of my clients (Hi, Mitch!) asked me about it, saying, “You’re a professional. That’s not supposed to happen to you.”
He was kidding. I think. But it brings up an excellent point.
Because, as I explained to him, there’s one big difference between the professional and the amateur writer.
The amateur gets distracted by Christmas and grandchildren and snow (we are currently on snowstorm #2) and allows all those things to lead her away from the computer.
The professional gets distracted by Christmas and grandchildren and snow and figures out how to get the words in anyway.
If you were a brain surgeon, would you let Christmas shopping lead you away from the operating room?
If you were an attorney, would you let snow keep you from the courtroom?
If you were president would you let your business keep you away from intelligence briefings?
Scratch that last one; bad example.
But all kidding aside, you get my point. None of the other professionals let themselves get distracted and neither should you.
I think my client’s statement is a common misconception. There’s this idea that the other writer–the bestselling novelist, the memoirist whose book got made into a movie, the essayist who just got a collection published–has it all dialed in. That she sits down at her computer every morning and the words flow and nobody bugs her until her daily word count is done. And the corollary to it is the belief that someday when you’re a professional writer, this is how your life will be. Once you turn pro, your writing will be easy every time you sit down to do it. Your life will be distraction-free. All that, and you’ll be making the big bucks, too.
I know about this fantasy because I have it, too. For some reason, mine tends to coalesce around English female novelists. I imagine them in their little cottage in the Cotswalds, snow falling outside while a fire roars inside. And as the fire roars, so does the author, banging out novel after novel that all are so perfect they barely need editing as they roll off her fingers.
That same author probably had to light the fire because the ancient heater in the funky old cottage went out and not only that but she had to mush through the snow to chop the wood. And every time she just gets into the flow of the writing, her uncle who lives next door appears with his latest drama. And no matter what she does she can’t get the scene right.
But you know what she does? She shows up anyway. Distractions happen to all of us, every single one. You can and should do your best to minimize them but they are still going to happen. Keep writing anyway.
Because writing well is the best revenge for every single damn thing in the world.
PS. Keep an eye on this space because my aforementioned client Mitch, is about to publish his first book and he’ll be telling you all about it in a guest post soon.
PPS. Mitch came to me after he had completed a very rough draft and we’ve worked together through the rewriting, the polishing and all the prep work he had to do for publishing. If you need help with any aspect of your writing, check out my coaching. I’m totally revamping my coaching packages and fees for the new year, so now is a great time to get in at the old prices!