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Charlotte Rains Dixon  

26 Acts of Kindness, One of Which is a Giveaway


Update:  Amber Hart is the recepient of the coaching session!  Amber, email me and we'll discuss details.

For the entire Christmas season, I've walked past the Salvation Army bellringer by the front door of my grocery store.   He's a cheerful sort and always greets me.  I smile and say "hi" back.  And I shrug and say "Sorry, I can't contribute because I never carry cash." And then I walk on.  I go about my way, feeling guilty but not guilty enough to do anything about it.

Until yesterday.  When I finally went out of my way to make sure I had cash I could contribute and I ran back to put $20 in the bucket.


Because of Sandy Hook.

Because it was my first act of kindness to honor the memory of the children who died there.

Let me explain.

Yesterday, newswoman Ann Curry tweeted her #20Acts idea–that each of us could commit to doing 20 acts of kindness to memoralize the Sandy Hook children.  I thought it was a great idea which would aid me in turning the helplessness I felt into some kind of action.  And so I tweeted about it and then went to take a shower.

Upon my return, I had a tweet from a producer at NBC News, saying he wanted to talk to me about my tweet.  This may be hard for you to believe, but in many ways I'm a very private person.  And the thought of being on TV terrifies me.  Is there a stronger word than terrify?  Because if so, that's the word I'd actually choose.  However, I had just written and published my post on choosing the word fearless as my word for 2013. 

And so, heart pounding, I emailed him.  My phone rang literally three minutes later and I had a nice chat with this man.  He was working on a story on the #20Acts for the news that night or the next.  But, here's the deal.  He ended up not interviewing me, because I hadn't done anything yet.  Granted, it was still morning in my time zone, but I didn't even have any plans formulated that I could share with him.  (I hasten to add that he didn't exactly tell me this, but I inferred it by our conversation.)

How lame is that?

Pretty damn lame. 

And so I resolved to follow through.  And I knew immediately that my first act would be to finally, finally, finally, give that bell ringer some money.

I've been thinking about acts of kindness every since and I've realized that in a weird way, they are linked to being fearless.  Because sometimes being kind feels scary.  What if the person you're being kind to rejects your overtures?  What if you end up looking silly?  What if it makes you feel uncomfortable?

What if we all make an effort to find out if these fears are true?  (Because, you know, they really aren't.)

This morning I thought and thought about what my next act of kindness would be.  And I realized that I don't have much to give, but I could give what I do have–and that is a coaching session.  I will read up to 20 pages and discuss them with you in a phone conversation.  Or we can talk about overcoming writer's block.  Or whatever you want.

I wish I could give a coaching session to every one of you.  But I can't.  So I'll choose one person in a random drawing from the comments.   I'm asking you to leave a comment detailing an idea or two for an act of kindness that you can perform.  This will give the rest of us ideas, too. I'll draw a name on Friday and announce the recipient on the blog that morning.

I look forward to reading what you plan to do.

PS:  Many people are now changing the hash tag to #26Acts of Kindness, to also honor the teachers who died and I'm following suit. But in the interest of journalistic integrity, I do note that the original idea from Ann was #20Acts.

Note: only the commenters who actually write about an act of kindness will be entered in the drawing.  The idea is to spread this and encourage all of us to take part.  You don't need to have done the actual act yet, but please plan on doing it for certain.

Photo by C.P. Storm

4 thoughts on “26 Acts of Kindness, One of Which is a Giveaway

  1. Beverly

    I got a similar email. The producer was interested in filming me talking to my students about #20Acts, but since we’re in finals, it didn’t work out.

    I’m bringing a meal to a new-ish mama. I’m planning to buy a few Starbucks gift cards and leave them in surprising places w/a note for strangers. I’m also going to bring some toys to my police station’s collection box. I think I’ll follow your generous lead by offering a free manuscript consultation, too!

  2. Charlotte Dixon

    Oh Beverly, I love your ideas!  I may borrow the Starbucks card idea–I love the idea of doing that.  I once found a really cool Art card on a walk in Nashville and kept it with me for year.  I was delighted every time I looked at it.  Thanks for commenting.

  3. Amber Hart

    I’m going to take down all the ornaments on my Christmas tree. Then I’m going to read each child’s name and chose just the right ornament for them. I won’t choose an ornament for the teachers, though, because they were the kind of women who would’ve given them away to their “kids.”
    The tree will serve as a reminder for me to meditate on the loss and send strength to the survivors. I hope that it will also remind me that this tragedy is not about me right now. Instead of internalizing the loss and thinking about how awful it would be to lose my children, those ornaments will remind me to think about each child’s contribution to our world.

  4. Charlotte Dixon

    Hi Amber, what a beautiful ritual you've planned.  At times like this it is very easy to internalize our sorrow.  I know it makes me think how awful it would be to lose a loved one.  I love that you're turning that into remembering each child's contribution to the world.  Thank you for commenting.

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