One of my dearest friends read last week’s post with the subject line, a love letter about winning, and wrote me that she thought it said whining. To which I responded, what an excellent idea for a newsletter. And so here we go.
In the spirit of the Olympics, I am a championship whiner. I can whine about anything, and I do. It’s too rainy, it’s too sunny (only a native Oregonian would whine about that), I’m too tired, I’m hungry, I’m full, I can’t focus, my knee hurts, I don’t want to exercise, my writing is crap…on and on it goes.
Until I get pulled up short and reminded how lucky I am. Most recently it was when I was watching a Facebook live event of an energy healer. (I’m pretty fascinated with this guy, Charlie Goldsmith.) As he worked with people on camera, others commented. By the time I quit watching, there were something like 18,000 comments. And 99.9% listed the terrible physical problems people were having, and begging for help.
If that doesn’t make you sit up and realize how lucky you are, I don’t know what does. Which is when I remind myself of the phrase, no whining on the yacht. I’m not sure where this originally came from, but I first heard it from my daughter-in-law a couple years ago. (Okay, I just looked it up. There’s an article dated 2010 that attributes it to U.S. Representative Earl Blumenauer.)
I have a wonderful family and friends, an amazing agent who loves my work and is determined to sell it, and oh yeah—I get to spend the whole month of March in France, writing. So yeah, not a lot to whine about.
And, most of all, I’m a writer. I get to write every day of my life and many days I get to work with other writers. I have an activity that I never get tired of, and I never, ever get bored, because there’s always another story to uncover.
So yeah, my novels may not have found a publisher yet, and I may wish I had more time to devote solely to writing them. I’m not rich, money-wise, and I do have chronic knee pain. I get called on way too often to watch grandchildren or drive neighbor kids to school because I work at home. I’m always, always, always, looking for more time to do the things I love.
But who freaking cares? Because I’m a writer. I’m one of the lucky ones in the world, because I get to make up stories and bring them to the world.
(This article first appeared in my weekly newsletter, The Abundant Writer. If you’d like it to arrive directly into your inbox each Sunday morning, you can subscribe in the form to the right.)