What Do You Focus On?

Estock_commonswiki_328901_hWhat you put your attention on grows.  It's that simple.

So if you put your attention on how wonderful it is to write every day, that writing habit will grow.  If you focus on how much fun it is to submit to agents (I'm feeling funny today), you'll do more of it. If you think about your novel when you're not writing, you'll spend more time on it.  That's just the way of the world.

So, piece of cake, right?  Just focus away and off you'll go.

Would that it was that simple.  Because in reality the art of focus is incredibly complex, or at least we humans make it so.

It takes discipline and work to train your attention to writing every day.  Usually, what happens in our brains is a thought process like this:

Oh my God, I didn't write today!  I'm a lazy idiot!  I can never get a writing habit going! I'll never finish my novel!

And then we're focusing on the exact condition we don't want to create–not writing.

Negative thoughts, like all forms of fear, are sneaky beasts.  They can be so ingrained that they form a constant low-level litany of which we're barely aware as we go about out days.  It's the proverbial vicious cycle:  you think negative thoughts–>you create negative conditions–>and then you think more negative thoughts.

Heavy sigh.

What's a writer to do to get her focus on the right things?  Here are some suggestions:

1.  Attentional Training.  This is pretty much a fancy word for meditation that I learned in a book by Jonathan Fields.  You can do any version of it you want: zazen, TM, insight mantra, or just close your eyes and take a few deep breathes throughout the day.  Honestly, it's a pain in the butt, and it is helpful for every aspect of your life, including your creativity and your spirituality.  If you're like me, you'll probably be convinced that you're not doing it right, but no matter how you do it, the practice really helps.

2. Active Attentional Training.  And this is the same as above only, as the name implies, in an active fashion.  So, it's when you are performing sports, or playing music, or, more to my tastes, knitting, sewing, weeding, even mowing the lawn (I do actually do that once in a while–with a push mower even).    You're doing AAT when  you're involved in a repetitive activity that does not require constant attention, or if you're engaging in an activity driven by speed, novelty, or intense bursts of concentration.  A recent example of this for me was doing homework for a class I took at church last week.  I had to read some fairly dense texts and process them mentally.

3.  Eternal vigilance.  Like I said earlier, it is a constant process.   You have to watch and monitor your thoughts endlessly.  But, they are your thoughts, and you are going to have them whatever you do, so you might as well work at turning negative ones into positive ones.  It's a lot more pleasant than, say, rerunning the fight with your boyfriend all day.

4.  Show up.  What's the famous Woody Allen quote? Something along the lines of, "99% of success is showing up."  So very true.  If you keep showing up at your writing chair day after day after day you're training yourself to eventually start focusing.  Because staring at a blank screen does get boring.

5.  Respect the work.  When we don't show up, when we don't focus our attention, we're not respecting the work, or  ourselves.  And what's the point of calling yourself a writer if you're not respecting your profession?  Respecting the work leads to better focus and better focus leads to better work which leads to more respect. Another one of those cycles, this one not so vicious.

So, there you have it, some tips on focus.  Got any of your own you'd like to share?

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10 Responses to What Do You Focus On?

  1. writer 07/18/2013 at 01:45 #

    Many people in our time are attention deficit disorder. Therefore, methods to increase the concentration such as meditation are now very common. As many time-management practices convince us that we should try to move away from the constant stimuli such as. E-mail, social networks and Skype. We must think about the main thing!

  2. Mandy 07/18/2013 at 06:17 #

    It’s amazing what happens when you just show up and make writing a habit. Yesterday I was sitting at my desk, typing away, when it occurred to me that I had actually gotten right to work at writing every single day this week. Now granted, yesterday was only Wednesday, but I think it’s a good idea to celebrate those little victories too!

  3. Charlotte Dixon 07/18/2013 at 06:29 #

    Yes, very true.  Thanks for commenting.

  4. Charlotte Dixon 07/18/2013 at 06:39 #

    I think it is an excellent idea to celebrate those victories!  Because, the more you focus on what you're doing right, the more you'll continue to do it.  Congratulations on getting to your writing promptly this week!

  5. Don Williams 07/18/2013 at 08:06 #

    I agree that celebrating your victories is a key to focusing, it’s a great prompt, and when I’m in one of those negative moments, like ever other minute, then I just tell myself to go and do a Nikey…. just do it, just show up and get the bloody thing over with. As hard as it is to start writing, I find that once I start, it’s even harder to stop! It’s also smart, at least for me anyway, that focusing on something is a lot easier, and even enjoyable, when you focus on the idea that it will lead to success.

  6. Charlotte Dixon 07/18/2013 at 09:07 #

    It is so funny to me how we are our own worst enemies–I fight and procrastinate and then when I get to the page I love it so much and I wonder what all the fussing was about!  Which is why it is so helpful to remember to focus on what you want to happen, i.e., the writing.  And yeah, that Just Do It approach works well at times, too.

  7. Maryse 07/18/2013 at 12:48 #

    I needed to read this today, Charlotte. I’ve been keeping a joy journal and I find that writing does not make it in there very often. Maybe it’s because I do not look at writing as a potential source of joy, and maybe, with practice, I could actually make it a source of joy. Well worth pondering, my friend, thank you!

  8. Charlotte Dixon 07/18/2013 at 13:55 #

    You are so welcome, thank you for coming by.  And I do know that your writing is a source of joy for other people, even if it is not for yourself.

  9. Anne Presuel 07/19/2013 at 08:44 #

    You’re inside my head, birthday girl! My thoughts: OMG, it’s another week and you didn’t send out an ezine! What’s wrong with you??? You’re supposed to do it EVERY week! (and so on)


    Thank you for the inspiration. Going to go do my ezine now.

    By the way, Happy, Happy Birthday! I hope it was absolutely Divine!

  10. Charlotte Dixon 07/19/2013 at 09:26 #

    I will very much look forward to your ezine, Anne–as I always do.  Glad I inspired you.  And thank you for the birthday thoughts–it was wonderful!

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