A Love Letter About Writing and Heat Waves
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Yesterday it was 97 here. Today it is forecast to be the same.
Now I know many of my readers may exist in more modern conditions than I, as in, you have air conditioning. But we live in an old house that doesn’t have it. And, at least historically (not so much anymore), we would only get maybe a few days of extreme heat every summer, and so there really wasn’t much need for it. So when it is hot, I suffer. Oh poor me and all that.
But there is still writing to be done, right? When you are a writer, there is always writing to be done, no matter what. The baby cries, the cows need milking, the beloved ancient parent needs tending. But there’s till writing to be done. And so one needs to find a way to do it, in heat waves and cold snaps alike. And even if you are cossetted from it, extreme heat is still energy-sapping. (For those of you reading this from the Southwest, I hope your terrible temperatures abate soon.) You still have to get from house to car and from car to work and from work to the grocery store.
A couple of summers ago I got in the habit of taking my computer outside and working at the table on the back deck in the cool early mornings. When the sun hit the fence beside me, I knew my writing time was over for the day because soon it would be shining on my monitor. It was a lovely way to get my writing done and set myself up for rest of the day. Later, when I’d be toiling in my hot office, I’d remember my morning sojourn outside and smile.
I often observe how my cats behave in the heat. Mostly, they stretch their fat selves out as far as possible and sleep. We should emulate them in the heat, right? Ha! Would that we could. But in some parts of the world, they do such things. The other day I was at my daughter’s and we were trying to get my five-year-old grandson to have thirty minutes of quiet time. Not even a nap, mind you, just quiet time. So I told him about what happens in the small towns of France (and many other European countries). How every day from noon to two the stores close and every one goes home for a break. Quiet time. It is a lovely habit and one that can serve the rest of us well during heat waves. Just allow yourself to take a break once in a while, for goodness sake.
Doing research for my Do That Thing class, I ran across some information last week that said most people spend a good chunk of their precious time worrying about expectations. They feel they must be perfect parents and perfect on the job. And I know for a fact that writers often feel they need to be perfect the second they throw words on the page. This makes my heart hurt. All these harsh expectations we place on ourselves.
And I think the hot days of summer when you don’t feel like doing much of anything are a good time to start practicing slowing down a little. Give yourself a break from those expectations that control you. Get your writing done in the cool of the morning. Find an air-conditioned coffee shop and camp out there with your computer. Go easy on yourself.
Do leave a comment about how you beat the heat!
Okay–are you ready for the big news? I have created a Facebook group for us! People are engaging in all kinds of different ways these days, and Facebook is a biggie, obviously. The group is called Prolific and Prosperous Writers and it is closed, which means any posts you make won’t appear on your personal timeline–that way you have all the freedom in the world to kvetch about your writing without worry that civilians (those who may not understand) will read it. Join here. Please do, I can’t wait to chat there!
Freedom and Independence Coaching Special:
I’m running a Freedom and Independence Coaching special through the Fourth of July. For three-month, paid in advance clients, I’m offering two free extra sessions. That’s 14 sessions instead of 12. And for six-month, paid in advance clients, I’m adding on 4 sessions. Woot! That’s 28 sessions instead of 24. Just think what you can get done in a few months of one-on-one coaching with me. You could get a huge start on your novel. Or finish the project that’s moldering in the drawer. Or start the process of getting an agent—or get your book self published.
Interested? Email me and we’ll set up a time to talk.
My new How to Get an Agent class is on July 11th. (I moved the date out because I, um, forgot I was going to be out of town.) It’s a one-session class that will tell you everything you need to know about getting an agent, from query and pitch through what to ask when an agent is interested in your work. Just in time for summer writing conference season, and the class includes an upgrade option for a critique of your query. Find out all the details and sign up here.